Criticism
DIRECT
AND INDIRECT CRITICISM
Criticism is telling someone that they need to improve or
become better. In the United States, some people are more
likely to criticize others directly. However, in other cultures,
people might criticize others, especially those who are older
or are in positions of power more indirectly.
Direct criticism means being honest and clear. One example
is telling someone, "I don't like what you did".
This is also a kind of criticism that leaves the person feeling
that they are good but their actions are bad.
Indirect criticism means that you don't say anything that
criticizes the person you are speaking to. You might tell
a person that bothered you a story that refers to their actions.
For example, if your girlfriend or boyfriend is jealous, you
might tell him or her a story about how you were in a relationship
before and it really bothered you because your girlfriend/boyfriend
at the time acted in a very jealous way whenever you did things
with friends of the opposite sex. (Women going out with male
friends or Men going out with female friends). Your story
explains your feelings but does not directly criticize the
person you are speaking with.